Sometimes it so happens, things are taken away from you even before you know what they are, and maybe change the way things seem to come by, and then there is a subtle reminder of sorts that pushes you back onto earth - no that I was walkin' in the clouds. Recilience, endurance and the like are best when one finds them, while climbing a mountain. Things, that are less cumbersome or less important are to be dealt with in a panache of sensibility, the kind of style that makes you go 'Wow I love my self'.